OK, so patience is not my long suit. In fact, if Americans share one common trait it may just be impatience. It is visible every where---tapping pencils, bouncing feet, poking elevator buttons, pounding computer keys, huffing and puffing, fingers counting cadence on the steering wheel, looking at your watch---the nervous ticks + twitches of people always in a hurry.
So much of life is defined by waiting. At the restaurant, a waiter or waitress serves you, like their sole task on the job is taking care of you while you wait. Check out the hospital some time. How many waiting rooms are there? At the crosswalk or intersection the signals say go or stop, meaning proceed or wait. Wait a minute. Please, wait. Wait here. Wait your turn. What are you waiting for? How long is the wait? Wait right there! The computer screen often yells (((((wait))))) while something is loading. A busy telephone annoys with a tone meaning ((((wait)))). Was it worth the wait?
Of course, the delays in the journey are numerous, often unexpected, usually necessary, sometimes not, aggravating at times too. Traffic gets gnarled and congested. Fender benders slow things down. Equipment malfunctions. Then, there is the need for routine maintenance, pit stops, a break in the itinerary. Arrrggggh! The slow poke in the vehicle in front of us has the entire passing lane stalled. Construction crews have the roadway closed or moving too slowly. Something turns the freeway into a parking lot. Ruh roh! You take a wrong turn. Don't forget the fog, the slippery surfaces, dangerous curves, and other hazards. Delays indeed!
So, I'm first in line at the confessional. Truly, I'm not the best wait-er in the world. Sorting out the root of this restlessness causes more than a little introspection. What I want to know is, is this thing just a part of my personality, an evidence of my personal strengths, or a spiritual flaw? Is this thing always bad?
Well, the answer is "e", all of the above. Personality does influence things. Mama Holmes, my paternal grandmother always said I had ants in my pants. Cool down, that was when I was two years old and not having sexual urges quite yet. My strength array includes achiever at the middle. So, people with these kinds of striving strengths can expect a little foot tapping when things ease off some. Oh yes. Mr. or Mrs. Job, patience is a spiritual thing too. It can grow in your life naturally as a fruit of the Spirit (see Galatians 5:22), or you can learn it from the hardships and trials of life (Romans 5:4). You decide how you want to learn it!
Just so, we should learn to stop and smell the soap along the way, to be still and know, to step aside from the flow of life traffic to commune with the Father, sharpen the saw, so to speak, go to the well, if you will, be filled with Holy Spirit so we engage what is before us in the journey.
I love what the Apostle Paul wrote---"For in this hope we are saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who hopes for what he already has? But if we hope for we do not already have, we wait patiently for it" (Romans 8:24-25). Now, there some good advice for the journey---wait patiently!
Nice.