Simply stated, friction is the force of two objects rubbing together. Well, there's dry friction, fluid friction, lubricated friction, skin friction, internal friction, and the sparks that fly when you and your wife are haggling over the remote control. Of course, the rub is the rub. It doesn't have to be bad because without it, things wouldn't move. But, if the fit os wrong, or alignment is off a bit, friction can also be the stuff of blisters, raw places, irritations, abrasions, and irritations. Thanks to friction, first aid is a thriving business, as well as counseling, lubricants, machine works, and something as simple as climbing stairs. At church, friction, managed properly, is good.
Friction makes things stop and go. It can bring a vehicle to a gradual slow-down or a screeching halt. At the same time, friction can propel an object forward with sudden acceleration or step it forward bit by bit. Friction connects a set of tire to the road, and cause water-planning on the same wet roads when the car's moving too fast. It is a resistant force that can slow things down or move them beyond their intended speed. Only when the works are not properly calibrated or measured or utilized dos the friction become a problem. Then, the rub is the rub and the result is red, swollen, and irritated.
So, take friction to church. Well, if the Bible correct, the message and the mission is always going to create a certain level of friction in a world moving the other way. When Scripture mentions "stumbling blocks" and "trouble" and some of the other predictable frictions when the church and the world run up against each other, there can be sparks. Yet, this is the very rub that draws the Gospel to that world. The Good News happens to the max in that friction. This stumbling block thing is the power of the Gospel, what thrusts us into that world. The friction works.
Internal friction advances the mission, fellowship, and even theological foundations of the local church. Once again, the natural leanings of the human species is confronted by the spiritual character of faith, creating a tension that moves faith forward. The tenets of faith are fixed and established. But, human spiritual growth challenges and stretches us under the friction of being transformed into the very image and likeness of Christ. Once again, friction create forward motion.
Then, there's the friction of ill fitting people and ideas and vision rubbing together in the church. Sadly, but far too often, churches experience the raw and exposed nerves, the abrasions of friction among believers who have different theological ideas. This even happens between spiritual leaders, pastors too, and their congregations. Somewhere in the call process there is a mis-match, an eagerness to create a good fit that overlooks important considerations. It is a serious miscalculation. The rub is irritating, dangerous, injurious.
Think life in the friction process too. It's a natural element of just about every interaction, contact with other people, organizations, ideas, concepts, and activity at every turn. Most friction is positive. Yet, at times there are miscalibrations, being in the wrong place at the wrong time, an explosion that can endanger life, relationships, careers, or just about any other precious reality in life. Lubrication helps. Medication can soothe abrasions.
But, fit is significant, having the right people on your bus, the birds of a feather thing, making some adjustments along the way, applying lubrication when needed, insuring the contact is moving you forward. The physics of church and the physics of life are identical. Friction is inevitable and natural.
Band-aids are not. If you have them on everything, something is out of alignment and the friction is not good. Maybe Galatians 5:22-23 will help.